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Don’t miss the latest exhibit in the Cornell Museum. Seven Solos is awesome.
Things we loved in July

Mayor Quimby is NOT the best example.
There was a fascinating profile last week in the New York Times’ Sunday Magazine about Mayor Pete of South Bend, Indiana.
Pete Buttigieg, 37, is running for president and as of today is considered a “top-tier” Democratic contender in a large field of candidates.
I’m drawn to the Mayor Pete story for several reasons but mostly because he’s a mayor, having been elected to the top office in Indiana’s fourth largest city while still in his 20s.
I can relate –somewhat– to the story having also been a mayor albeit in my late 30s of a city that toggled between the third and fourth largest in Palm Beach County at the time.
That’s kind of where the similarities end.
Mayor Pete went to Harvard and was a Rhodes Scholar who speaks 8 languages. I went to SUNY Oswego (the Harvard of Central New York) took Spanish in junior high school and studied Hebrew for my Bar Mitzvah but never really could master either language.
But we do have something else in common.
Mayor Pete, while running for president, is trying to heal a city in the wake of a police shooting of an African American resident. I had a similar experience in 2005.
What I don’t understand is how you can do two jobs at once—run for president and serve effectively as a mayor.
Perhaps you might be able to slide by if you’re in Congress if you miss a few votes, but serving as a mayor is the political equivalent of a hands-on, 24-7 job.
As someone is quoted in the Times story—when you are a mayor “every turd tends to land on your doorstep and everyone knows where your doorstep is”.
Not the most elegant description but apt nonetheless.
And it doesn’t matter if you a so-called “strong mayor” like Mayor Pete or if you serve in a council-manager form of government like we have in Delray Beach and Boca Raton.
The buck stops with you on everything that happens in your city. Some of it you can exert some measure of control over—zoning, budgets, capital projects—but some you just can’t control—such as shootings, natural disasters or when the principal of your local high school decides to question the validity of The Holocaust. In Florida, schools are the purview of the School Board, but you can be assured that my friend Boca Mayor Scott Singer was deeply involved in that recent controversy as he should have been.
When a shooting occurs in a city the mayor needs to be present.
The NYT story quotes Buttigieg as saying that mayors serve as their community’s pastors and commanders in chief—an interesting and accurate description.
When tragedy strikes and anger, sadness and emotions swell, mayors are there to absorb the pain.
It’s hard to do that when you are campaigning in Iowa or pressing the flesh at a fish fry in New Hampshire.
That said, I’m not of the school that mayors can’t be good presidents, even though none have ever made the leap directly from City Hall to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue.
In fact, mayors may be uniquely qualified to serve in this moment of division and gridlock. After all, when you are mayor you are compelled to solve problems, tend to look for non-partisan solutions and are always reminded that policies at their core effect real people, something that every elected official ought to remember.
Mayors serve in a fish bowl, everybody sees you. There’s no hiding behind a party and no voting in distant places like Washington orTallahassee.
That proximity keeps the best mayors grounded in reality—they have to live close to the impacts both positive and negative– of their decisions.
I like that—it leads to accountability but only if your constituency is paying attention as we should always do.
So yes, I think mayors could be good presidents. But I don’t think they can or should run at the same time they are serving their cities.
We’d all be better off if the people we elect concentrate on the jobs we elected them to do. That goes for the Mayor of NYC as well, who was out of town when his city suffered a large blackout earlier this month.
Yes, you can fly back as Mayor DeBlasio and Mayor Pete did when crises occurred. But then they have to fly out again—which leaves their cities rudderless.
That’s never a good thing.

Someone I admire sent me a note over the July 4th weekend.
He knows I struggle with the division I see in our country and right here in our own community.
I suspect I am not alone in that struggle. It seems like every week there’s another flare up that drives us further apart. This week, sadly, is no exception.
So my friend referred me to a link that discussed a concept called “civil obligations.”
We often talk about civil rights and they are important, but I am beginning to think that without obligations and responsibilities, rights are just not enough to build a strong and enduring society or community.
I’m happy that my friend turned me on to the writing of Sister Simone Campbell, known as “the nun on the bus.”
Sister Simone is the executive director of NETWORK, an organization that advocates for socially just federal policies.
Sister Simone is a strong believer in civil rights. She notes that the civil rights movement was forged by a community, but the advances were focused on individual rights. An unintended consequence is that some people feel threatened by those rights —as if there are not enough rights to go around. So they created their own movement. As a result, we have an endless cycle of friction.
Here’s how Sister Simone describes the dynamic:
“A democracy cannot survive if various groups and individuals only pull away in different directions. Such separation will not guarantee that all are allowed the opportunity for ‘life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.’ All people must be recognized for their inherent dignity and gifts regardless of the color of their skin, their religious beliefs, or their place of origin. And all these gifts need to be shared in order to build up the whole. So I have begun to wonder if the new task of the first half of the twenty-first century should be a commitment to civil obligations as a balance to the focus on civil rights.”
I think she’s on to something.
So what are civil obligations?
Let’s let Sister Simone explain.
“Civil obligations call each of us to participate out of a concern and commitment for the whole. Civil obligations call us to vote, to inform ourselves about the issues of the day, to engage in serious conversation about our nation’s future and learn to listen to various perspectives. To live our civil obligations means that everyone needs to be involved and that there needs to be room for everyone to exercise this involvement. This is the other side of civil rights. We all need our civil rights so that we can all exercise our civil obligations.”
She continues: “The mandate to exercise our civil obligations means that we can’t be bystanders who scoff at the process of politics while taking no responsibility. We all need to be involved. Civil obligations mean that we must hold our elected officials accountable for their actions, and we must advocate for those who are struggling to exercise their obligations. It is an unpatriotic lie that we as a nation are based in individualism. The Constitution underscores the fact that we are rooted and raised in a communal society and that we each have a responsibility to build up the whole. The Preamble to the Constitution could not be any clearer: “We the People” are called to “form a more perfect Union.”
Isn’t that cool? Doesn’t it make sense?
I don’t think being armchair citizens, tweeting and posting gripes is enough. We need active participation. We need voters, candidates, volunteers, mentors, servant-leaders and philanthropists.
The City of Santa Monica measures happiness and I always thought that was interesting. We seem to measure property values and not much else.
We ought to take our civic temperature and judge not only whether stakeholders are happy but whether they are emotionally invested here.
Do they know what Old School Square is all about? Do they use the library? Do they vote? Would they volunteer to serve in some sort of capacity? Are they interested in schools, helping our police department or mentoring young people? The list of ways to engage is endless.
In my experience, while some people will just show up to work in the community, it helps immensely if we ask them to get involved and to create a culture of participation.
But whether your community values participation or employs a top down model of governance, we the people have an obligation as well.
An obligation to be informed; to seek facts and be independent thinkers. An obligation to vote—so few of us do— especially in local elections.
Rights are accompanied by obligations. We have to exercise those rights, protect them and work on behalf of the whole.
With America divided and so much friction in our local communities, the call to embrace civil obligations is more important than ever.

Old School Square was the catalyst.

Delray’s own: Coco Gauff
Every now and again an athlete breaks through and touches the hearts and minds of people all over the world.
The ability to capture those hearts is part of the magic of sports.
Maybe it’s the talent it takes to excel, maybe it’s the sacrifice or the personal story. Regardless, some athletes seem to rise above.
You don’t have to be a tennis fan to be caught up in the story of Cori “Coco” Gauff.
The 15-year-old from Delray Beach will play in the Round of 16 today at Wimbledon and that’s a monumental achievement. Coco is making headlines all over the world after three scintillating victories, including a convincing first round win over her hero Venus Williams who also has extensive ties to Delray.
There are many aspects to the Coco story. Yes, she’s the youngest. Yes, she’s the “next one” and yes she has a very big game.
But she also has the “it” factor, that intangible that is hard to explain but you sure know it when you see it.
She plays without fear.
Staring down her idol Venus, beating a past semi finalist in the second round and digging deep to escape a tough third round match against a powerful and experienced opponent who was playing very very well announced to all who were watching that they were witnessing something special.
Coco has that champion’s demeanor. She know she belongs. And despite what must be enormous pressure she continues to play fearlessly, going for shots and digging deep when she gets in a hole.
It’s amazing to watch. And she has become the story of the tournament no matter what happens from here on out.
You get the sense that you are watching history, the glorious coming out party of a special transcendent athlete.
Of course, a few wins at a high profile event does not a career make.
But…this feels different. This feels real.
For her hometown of Delray Beach, Coco’s amazing run has been a joyous occasion.
Large crowds gather at her parents restaurant, The Paradise Sports Lounge on West Atlantic Avenue and Military Trail for “watch parties” that have been covered on the national and international news.
Leading the cheers are Coco’s grandmother –the wonderful Yvonne Odom, herself an historic figure as the first African American student to attend Atlantic High School.
We’ve written about my friend Mrs. Odom on this site. She’s special too.
That her own athletic ambitions were scuttled by the racial attitudes of the times is a part of her grand daughter’s amazing story. Yvonne was not able to play sports at Atlantic despite her considerable athletic talents.
To see Coco thrive at Wimbledon must be extra special for Mrs. Odom and her family. You can see the joy the family is experiencing and it’s inspiring.
I’ll be hoping that the run continues. But even if it ends today or with Coco lifting the championship trophy, we have a strong sense that this story is just beginning.

Bryan Stevenson
Sometimes you see someone so special that it literally takes your breath away.
Someone so brilliant and emotionally intelligent that their words stop you in their tracks and you are left changed by the experience.
That’s how I felt when I heard Bryan Stevenson speak recently at the annual meeting of Leadership Florida in Orlando.
Stevenson is the founder of the Equal Justice Initiative which is the subject of a new HBO documentary.
His work focuses on race and criminal justice reform and how we can inch our way toward a more perfect union.
We live in a society in which 1 in 3 African American males and 1 in 6 Latino men will end up incarcerated; a disturbing statistic that we somehow seem to accept. As if those lives are disposable. As if our nation can afford to throw these people away.
Stevenson wants us to chafe at these statistics.
It’s not that he wants us to feel bad or guilty.
In fact, he wants us to heal and feels that the only path to healing is facing what ails us as Americans.
Stevenson is a founder of the only museum dedicated to the history of lynching in America. It’s located in Montgomery, Alabama.
In fact, he was in Orlando to dedicate a marker at the site of a lynching in that city right here in our state.
By putting the issues front and center, Stevenson is hoping to spark a dialogue and a process that will ultimately lead to the airing of truths and a national reconciliation.
He fears what will happen to us if we don’t discuss these painful issues—slavery, bigotry, racism, violence. He believes it is keeping us apart.
Regardless of how you feel, it’s hard to deny that we have a racial divide in this country and in our own community.
Delray has a fraught relationship with race—Swinton has been a dividing line, we wrestle with issues of equity, trust, inequality and how to communicate.
I see it every day in Delray.
I feel it too.
I know I am not alone.
But I also know that many people don’t feel the tension or have no interest in engaging.
But those who care about making a lasting difference should care. Because the divide holds us back and we are forever at risk of volatility if we ignore or pretend that these issues aren’t real or don’t exist. We will never reach our potential until we face up to what separates us.
So what we can do?
Stevenson suggests that we put ourselves where we typically refuse to venture.
The best part of Stevenson’s powerful message was his plea for people, especially those who seek to lead to get “proximate” to the issues in their communities.
Stevenson urges all of us to get close to the issues and get to know the most troubled parts of our community.
Proximity enables us to understand, empathize and eventually help.
Distance keeps us apart and does not allow for solutions to take root. It may even be wasteful since often we will prescribe the wrong solutions to community problems because we haven’t taken the time to get close to the suffering.
It may seem easier to turn away, but it’s not says Stevenson. The price we pay is too high—estrangement, anger, violence, division and a host of other ills.
As I watched Stevenson mesmerize a large crowd of experienced leaders, I couldn’t help but think that this is the kind of leadership we are missing in our cities and inour country.
We need leaders who share, empathize and truly care to get close enough to understand, grow and evolve.
It takes an investment of time and heart. It takes a willingness to set aside preconceptions and open ourselves to possibilities and healing.
This not us versus them politics designed to keep us angry and apart. This is true inclusiveness, idealistic and human. It summons our better angels.
We can choose to remain angry, divided and sure of our positions from the safety of our couches and echo chambers or we can be “proximate” and learn to love thy neighbor.
It’s a simple choice. And an obvious one.

Delray’s Coco Gauff makes her Wimbledon debut today.
Things We Liked n June
After reading a stellar review, we checked out the Driftwood restaurant on U.S. 1 in Boynton Beach.
It’s fabulous.
Located in the former location of Sculley’s, the Driftwood offers craft cocktails and farm fresh food inventively prepared from local farms.
We recommend the Yuca tots, the calamari (the presentation is very different), the deviled eggs and the pita and hummus.
Great happy hour from 3-6 daily.
We skipped the lion fish, but they offer it.
We went back to La Vie, a Middle Eastern restaurant in Pompano. It did not disappoint. Great food. Entertainment and a really cool atmosphere. Highly recommend.
We enjoyed Maya Flavors of India in Boca and Oli’s Fashion Cuisine in Wellington. Recommend both.
Johnny Mango’s on North Federal Highway is a local treasure. Just a fun place to stroll through and admire the orchids, plants and eclectic decorations. These are the type of unique local businesses you hope to see last and flourish.
A special thank you shout out to Elise and Charles Johnson for hosting a tropical cocktail party at their beautiful home.
The goal was to bring Old School Square board members and donors together for a fun evening of bonding. Mission accomplished. The Johnson’s are a special couple who quietly do a lot for Delray.
Congratulations to Two Fat Cookies on their new location right next to Salt 7 in the SoFA district. The new store is larger than their previous location in Pineapple Grove. We wish them well.
It’s also good to see the new Aloft Hotel at 202 Southeast Fifth Avenue nearing their grand opening. The hotel held a job fair in June. We look forward to seeing the new hotel and WXYZ lounge.
Impact 100 For Men awarded $50,000 to the Florence Fuller Child Development Center and $4,500 each to the Milagro Center and First Serve West Palm Beach at their annual meeting in June.
I’ve been a member of this terrific group since its inception two years ago. We need more members so we can give away more money to important non-profits serving our community.
Please consider joining. Visit https://unitedwaypbc.org/impact100-men/ for more information.
The Dish on Dishes
The chicken lemon picatta at Grand Luxe is awfully good.
It’s hard to beat the chips and salsa at Senor Burrito.
The Chicken and dumplings at the aforementioned Driftwood—very good.
The pasta dishes at La Villetta are outstanding.
Summer Movies
Don’t miss Rocket Man on the big screen. Elton John music, great acting and unique storytelling.
Yesterday is a feel good movie and features a slew of Beatles songs. We loved it.
Lean on Pete is streaming on Amazon. It’s a sad, but exceedingly well done movie featuring a boy and his horse.
Chocolate Everywhere
We finally made it to The Chocolate Factory in Delray.
Beautiful facility, friendly staff and delicious chocolate all made right here in Delray. Add it to your list of places to scope out.
Congratulations to Delray’s Gary Woodland who shot 13 under to win the U.S. Open golf tournament.
Yes, he lives here. In a Marc Julien home. Pretty cool.
On a sad note, Delray lost a great friend in June with the passing of Charlie Gwynn.
The long time business and civic leader was born in Delray in 1931.
He was a business owner, coach, volunteer and just a wonderful gentleman.
He was also a regular at the old Green Owl where he met daily with several other long time leaders to eat breakfast, sip coffee and hold court on all things.
That’s how I will remember Charlie. Meeting with his friends and greeting everyone with a warm smile.
On another sad note, Delray lost a wonderful benefactor with the loss of Sara Jo Kobacher this month. I had the pleasure of spending time with Sara Jo and her late husband Art as they worked toward their dream of establishing The Village Academy in Delray.
Opened in 2000, The Village Academy School on the Art & Sara Jo Kobacker Campus serves students from low income homes from birth (Head Start) through 12th Grade. Following Sara Jo’s wishes, the United Way of PBC will be the beneficiary of donations in her honor. Condolences may be sent to the family at https://www.schoedinger.com.
Recognition
Congratulations to the fabulous Crane’s Beach House on earning a place in the TripAdvisors’ Hall of Fame.
Crane’s received TripAdvisor’s Certificate of Excellence for the fifth year in a row.
In order to be eligible for the Certificate of Excellence, properties must maintain an overall rating of 4 out of 5 on TripAdvisor.
Only 10 percent of properties worldwide are in the Hall of Fame so this is a special and deserved honor indeed.
GM Cathy Balestiere and her team have been great assets to Delray for a very long time. So cool to see the property recognized.
It’s also heartwarming to see another deserving local business win national recognition.
Boca’s Farmer’s Table was named one of the “100 Best Al Fresco Restaurants” in America in 2019 by Open Table.
Farmer’s Table—which is wonderful—was selected from the reviews of more than 30,000 restaurants submitted by Open Table diners.
Congrats to Delray’s Joseph Gianuzzi on this well deserved honor.
Congratulations also goes to the Sandoway House.
Sandoway Discovery Center received a two-year grant totaling $90,000 from The Jim Moran Foundation. The funds will be used to support Sandoway’s Education and Animal Care Program which allows students and visitors to learn environmental education through hands-on activities and live-animal encounters. The Jim Moran Foundation grant will also allow for the purchase of a new environmental education book to be sent home with every student participating in Sandoway’s Junior Naturalist Program from a Title I school.
This from CNN and it’s not fake news.
(CNN) – “American tennis prodigy Cori “Coco” Gauff just became the youngest player in the Open Era to advance through qualifying to reach Wimbledon’s main draw.”
The 15 year old Delray native has often been compared to Serena Williams. It’s not an unfair comparison. Stay tuned. She’s special.
Coco plays Venus Williams today at Wimbledon. She grew up idolizing the Williams sisters, who also trained in Delray.
No less a legend than Roger Federer calls the match-up “fascinating.”
Have a wonderful July and a safe Independence Day!

Ken Gronbach is often asked by Fortune 100 companies to predict the future. He does through the power of demography.
There’s a tsumani coming to Florida and we are not prepared for it.
Those were the startling words we heard last week from a well-known demographer at Leadership Florida’s annual meeting at the Grand Floridian in Orlando.
The “tsunami” refers to a wave of people who will be heading to the Sunshine State in the coming years to seek tax relief, better weather and quality of life, according to demographer Ken Gronbach, an expert who is often hired by Fortune 100 companies to predict trends based on population and other factors that drive sales and lifestyle decisions.
Grombach is bullish on Florida but he also cautions that the state has no idea what’s about to happen and is deficient in a number of areas including housing. We just don’t have enough to serve the needs of the people who will be seeking a new life in Florida.
Interestingly, it’s not the “millennials” who will be driving growth but the tail end of the baby boom generation —those born between the late 50s and 1964 that will be fueling the growth.
“You don’t need a crystal ball,” Gronbach told Leadership Florida, a non-profit that consists of community leaders from throughout the state. “It’s simple math. We can predict people’s behavior based on their age and by looking at the Census we can know the size of the market that’s coming.”
So what does that mean?
Well…
Florida’s will explode (with people)
Bigotry will end (future generations are free of bias)
China, Japan and Russia have big demographic problems that they cannot avoid.
China’s economy will implode (their one-child policy was a big blunder)
Europe will be forever changed (immigration will change its character)
Funerals will double (the party will end for boomers)
Marijuana will be bigger than wheat (Cheech and Chong were right)
“We can accurately forecast what’s next based on the rise and fall of populations,” he says. “But it’s often missed by smart people who don’t recognize the power of demography.”
Now this may sound a little depressing, but if you see Gronbach he’ll tell you that’s it not.
“I can’t see a single number that worries me,” he says talking about the United States. “We won’t run out of food or room…the future is bright.”
In fact, one of his most provocative statements is that he does not foresee a recession anytime within the next 20 years because of population growth and trends.
But, if you’re someone who is disturbed by growth, Florida may not be the place for you.
In fact, in our own little world we are seeing some interesting growth trends. According to the Census, Boca has reached a milestone of 100,000 people and Delray is now around 70,000 people. Both cities have experienced double digit growth since the last Census in 2010, Boca at about 18 percent and Delray at about 14 percent.
And according to Gronbach we have only just begun.
“I live in Florida half the time—and if you go in-season the elderly in Florida range from 75- to 95-years-old. Boomers right now are 54 to 73, so they aren’t even there yet.”
But they are just off shore and they are descending on Florida “like locusts.”
Let’s let Mr. Gronbach explain: “What is going to happen is you have a tsunami offshore because the people, the generation right in front of the boomers, which is called the “silent generation,” they were born 1925 to 1944 and there are just over 50 million of them that were born in the U.S., with no immigration during their start up and even during their tenure. That would further have complemented their generation. But, instead, they are tiny, the smallest generation of the last 100 years.
So people ask me, what is going to be influenced by the boomers? And, I say whatever is going to happen, whatever these people consume, whatever senior citizens consume, be it health care or elder care or death care [i.e., funeral homes, etc.], or cruises or whatever, will be dramatically enhanced by the boomer generation of 80 million people. They are right offshore. It is coming, people have been lulled into thinking that it has already hit, and it has not. The boomers will change anything and everything. It does not matter, there are so many of them it will be a case of rising tides lift all boats.”
According to Gronbach, we will be 25 million housing units short in the United States as the children of Boomers begin to move out of their parents homes.
Not part of his presentation– but certainly a factor– were the changes recently made to the tax code which limits the deduction of state and local taxes on our federal income tax. States such as New York, New Jersey, California and Connecticut are seeing an exodus of tax burdened residents to places such as Florida and Texas.
It is estimated that luxury properties in Florida cost a third less than comparable properties in New York, a stat that savvy developers are beginning to explore and exploit.
Ultimately, Gronbach’s presentation is a very positive one for the United States especially as we ramp up our competition with China, whose one child policy he describes as the single greatest demographic blunder of all time because it has created an aging society that cannot take of its young or old.
But like everything, growth has its plusses and minuses, especially if we don’t prepare.
At some point, we have to address traffic and congestion issues, infrastructure, climate change (mysteriously absent from his presentation) and a host of other concerns. We also have to address land use and have an intelligent conversation about how to limit sprawl which creates traffic and burdens our fragile environment.
Still, Gronbach’s “math” makes for intriguing discussion. We ignore the numbers at our own peril. It’s simple math.

Leadership Florida builds statewide community.
Mr. Stevenson, whose life is soon to become a movie (and who has an HBO documentary debuting this week) urged us to get “proximate” to the people in our communities who need us most. Proximity allows us to better understand the issues, strengths and challenges in our communities. Who can argue with that?
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